Divi Fernando

I am a relationship expert. I love reading and writing about tips and suggestions on relationship issues, I love to observe the various changing relationship dynamics and review the ongoing trends. Many people have sought my advice for their relationship problems.

Financial Compatibility in Couples – How Money Impacts Love

Picture this.You’re sitting in a café, splitting a bill. You casually say, “Let’s go Dutch,” and your partner pauses for half a second too long. That pause? Loud. Very loud. Money doesn’t usually start fights—but it quietly finishes them. We grow up thinking love conquers all. But rent, EMIs, random Swiggy orders, and “just one […]

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Healing Attachment Wounds: How to Stop Sabotaging Good Relationships

Alright, let’s talk about that thing we all pretend we’ve healed from… but somehow it still shows up in our relationships like an uninvited guest who eats all the snacks and refuses to leave. You know the scene.Someone nice texts you back on time. They’re consistent. Emotionally available. Not toxic. And instead of feeling calm,

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Does He Love Me If He Keeps Coming Back After He Hurts Me? (8 Honest Truths You Need to Hear)

So, here’s the scene: you’ve told him, clearly and calmly, “This hurts me. Please don’t do that again.”He nods, says he understands, even apologizes with that guilty puppy look. But a week later? Same behavior. Same pain. And when you finally block him to protect your peace — boom — your phone lights up with

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8 Pre-Marriage Conversations Couples Should Never Skip

You know that warm, fuzzy feeling you get when you’re planning a wedding? Pinterest boards overflowing with mandaps, outfits, and hashtags like #HitchedWithHeart? Yeah, that’s all fun—until you realize marriage isn’t just about matching outfits and saving the best dance for your sangeet. It’s about those late-night chats that don’t make it to Instagram—the ones

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Top Reasons Why Indian Men Cheat On Their Partners

When we ask the question, “Why do Indian men cheat?” it’s essential to start with a disclaimer: not all Indian men cheat. However, for those who do, the reasons often run much deeper than just “temptation” or “technology.” Yes, dating apps, social media, and growing online access have made cheating easier. But they are rarely

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Do Love Languages Still Work? The Indian Twist on Modern Romance

If you’ve ever been in a relationship (or even just in the talking stage that goes on longer than a Virat Kohli century), you’ve probably come across the term love languages. Coined by Dr. Gary Chapman in the ’90s, these five magical categories—Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch—were

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Dating in the age of AI: Can Algorithms Really Find Love?

Picture this: you’re curled up on your bed, scrolling through a dating app while sipping chai, when suddenly—boom!—a profile pops up. Same taste in Bollywood music? Obsessed with pani puri? Their favorite holiday spot is Goa (because of course it is)? You pause and wonder: is this cosmic destiny, or just an algorithm at work?

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Power of Solo Dating: 8 Fun & Life-Changing Ways To Love Yourself

You know that awkward feeling when you’re sitting in a café alone, scrolling through Instagram just so people don’t think you’re that person who got stood up? Been there. Done that. Ordered fries to make myself feel less alone. 😂 But here’s the thing: solo dating is actually one of the most liberating, confidence-boosting, downright

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